At around 14 years of age, at the onset of puberty, I first became aware of homosexual desires. I was attracted to men and only men. Mine was a fairly textbook case; I had no male influence in my childhood (my father died when I was 4) and grew up in an all-female house. This longing to have a father to do things with lasted from the age of 6 until I was 12, but on reaching puberty that longing for a father turned into homosexual feelings. I also suffered from deep inferiority due to being been badly bullied at school.
True Freedom Trust (TFT) is a confidential Christian support and teaching ministry that holds to authentically biblical teaching on sexuality. We offer support to those facing same-sex temptations (as well as their relatives, friends and church leaders) who choose not to embrace a gay identity or to pursue a same-sex relationship because of convictions of faith.